Why some people masturbate about people they hate

May is National Masturbation Month, and we're celebrating with Feeling Yourself, a series exploring the finer points of self-pleasure. In public, he was rude to her. In private, she masturbated about him.  That's a simplified version of a sexual fantasy described to me by Holly, who prefers to not reveal her real name. The longer version goes as follows: Holly had a temporary boss who was covering for someone on maternity leave. She describes this man as "rude, arrogant, massively misogynistic" with an oversized ego and a proclivity to publicly admonish members of staff in front of their colleagues.  Read more...More about Sex, Sex And Relationships, Masturbation, Feeling Yourself, and Culture